Practical Tips from Madea For Holiday Family Dinners

With the holidays upon us, we once again reprint these hilarious rules for holiday family dinners from Madea that were first brought to our attention in 2010.  Print and give a copy to each guest entering your home. And have a wonderful Thanksgiving!


1. Don’t get in line asking questions about the food. “Who made the potato salad? Is it egg in there? Are the greens fresh? Is the meat in the greens turkey or pork?   Who made the macaroni and cheese?  What kind of pie is that?  Who made it?”  Ask one more question and I will punch you in your mouth, knocking out all your fronts, so you won’t be able to eat anything.

2. If you can’t walk or are missing any limbs, sit your ass down until someone makes your plate for you. Dinner time is not the time for you to be independent. Nibble on them damn pecans and walnuts to hold you over until someone makes you a plate.

3. If you have kids under the age of twelve, I will escort their little asses to the basement and bring their food down to them. They are not gonna tear my damn house up this year.  Tell them that they are not allowed upstairs until it’s time for Uncle Butchie to start telling family stories about their mommas and papas.  If they come upstairs for any reason, except for that they are bleeding to death, I will break a foot off in their asses!

4. There is going to be one prayer for Thanksgiving dinner!  JUST ONE!  We do not care that you are thankful that your 13 year-old daughter gave birth to a healthy baby or your nephew just got out of jail.  Save that talk for somebody who gives a damn. The time limit for the prayer is one minute.  If you are still talking after that one minute is up, you will feel something hard come across your lips and they will be swollen for approximately 20 minutes.

5. Finish everything on your plate before you go up for seconds!  If you don’t, you will be cursed out and asked to stay your greedy ass home next year!

6. BRING YOUR OWN TUPPERWARE!!  Don’t let me catch you fixing yourself a plate in my good Tupperware, knowing damn well that I will never see it again!  Furthermore, if you didn’t bring anything over, don’t let me catch you making a plate, period, or it will be a misunderstanding.

7. What you came with is what you should leave with!!  Do not leave my house with anything that doesn’t belong to you. EVERYBODY WILL BE SUBJECTED TO A BODY SEARCH COMING AND GOING OUT OF MY DOMAIN!!!

8. Do not leave your kids so you can go hopping from house to house.  This is not a DAYCARE CENTER ! There will be a kid-parent roll call every ten minutes.  Any parent that is not present at the time of roll call your child will be put outside until you come and get him or her.  After 24 hours, I will call ACS on your ignorant ass!!

9. BOOK YOUR HOTEL ROOM BEFORE YOU COME INTO TOWN!!  There will be no sleeping over at my house!  You are to come and eat dinner and take your ass home or to your hotel room.  EVERYBODY GETS KICK THE HELL OUT AT 11:00 pm.  You will get a 15 minute warning bell ring.

10. Last, but not least, ONE PLATE PER PERSON!!  This is not a soup kitchen.  I am not trying to feed your family until Christmas dinner!  You will be supervised when you fix your plate.  Anything over the appropriate amount will be charged to you before you leave.  There will be a cash register at the door.  Thanks to Cousin Alfred and his greedy ass family, we now have a credit card machine!  So VISA and MASTERCARD are now being accepted.  NO FOOD STAMPS OR ACCESS CARDS YET!

Have a Happy and safe Thanksgiving, TGATP readers!

That Girl At the Party

I am a proud blogger of 11 years, Founder of Canappetit, PR person, Web and Cannabis Entrepreneur, Founder of the LTN Card, the Let Love Festival and the Henley Foundation, aunt to 12 and human to Bodhi and Yoko Rey

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